How to avoid boring conversations in a relationship
Introduction
Every relationship is special and unique in there own way. People come together because they share a common goal, have emotional attachments but every relationship goes through ups and down, partners put their best efforts to make it work. However relationships require attention and commitment also with time everything can be boring if done in the same manner. So here are some tips to avoid boring conversations in a relationship.
By Sanjhi kushwaha
So let's just begin-
1. Stop having Surface level conversations
A lot of couples make a huge mistake by just talking about there daily routines. They just talk about the whether, what they had in lunch, how was there day at work etc. Apart from this they do not get involved into other deeper conversation, this habit of having Surface level conversations can make your relation boring and bring disconnectivity. While you cannot have physiological or deep conversation everyday but you can do better talking to avoid boredom.
2. You never Argue or Fight
Not everything is perfect and even cannot be. Never arguing or putting of your voice can be sometimes be very wrong. It may seems like that you're being cool by avoiding mistakes and letting things go but in reality you're collecting bundle of misunderstanding which will create problem in your relationship. It also doesn't mean to fight 24*7 but to have healthy disagreements, share tough emotions and understand each other's feeling.
3. You don't talk about the hurt feelings
Anything that upsets you and being ignored can be a drawback in your relationship. You should always talk about the hurt feelings and any emotional damage that is caused by them. Not talking about such things can bring boredom to your relation. Not just normal or loving conversations are a key to healthy relationship, you should often talk about the hurt feelings.
4. Start sharing your hobbies
Every partner should be intrested in knowing the others hobbies. This can be a beautiful thing to share and talk about, this will let you express your inner self as well as it help your partner to know more about you. This will also remove the boredom caused in relationship by talking about such things and then practically performing them with the other.
5. Talk about the beginning of your relationship
Talking about the old day, the starting of your relationship how you guys met, how was your first date. Simple and such happy reminders will get your old memories back and you'll enjoy thinking about them. Revisiting the old memories will spice up your relationship and remove the boredom.
6. Read books and discuss about it.
If you and your partner enjoy reading then select a common book and read it together. Once the book is finsihed you can have detailed discussion about it. Ask about the favourite part, the favourite character, opinions about the topic etc. This will help you to connect more and know about your partners character.
7. Pick a show to binge watch together and then talk about it.
At present time, people are soo much into the movie's shows etc. They enjoy watching them, infact everyone has different taste so by that you can share your opinion about different shows you watch. You can suggest each other some shows and can talk about them for hours. This will not let you to get bored easily.
8. Open conversation
Having a nice open conversation with your partner is very important, this will build trust between you and your partner. Having open conversation will let you know more about each other. This will deepen up your relationship, it's just you should be honest while sharing your interest and opinions. This is the best way to remove boredom.
9. Give each other compliments.
While having the conversation you can just compliment each other, about the positive things your partner has. This will create a strong connection between you people and generate more love and affection.
Conclusion
Everybody is happy but just adding these tips you can avoid boring conversations in your relationship. It's important to invest and put efforts. This will help you have a relationship that stays fulfilling and happy.
